Oh my little lady...a 30min nap then off to Alex's house for playtime and dinner turned into the worst night ever. You were so hot, so uncomfortable even the dogs didn't know what todo. None of us slept well, but we knew that Duchess and Grandpa would be coming to town so we made it through. You were so excited to see them, which was just wonderful. You are still trying to figure out what to do when I get sad/upset and it is NOT your job to fix the situation...only role you play is to stop a behavior if that is causing me the frustration. These last few days have been hard on you having dad away, duchess and grandpa in town, bubbie around, and the school part...so many changes for my pip-squeek.
It is so great knowing that you know how much of a role duchess and grandpa want to have in your life and how comfortable you are with them. I am sad that you don't get to be with them every week, but I know soon enough we will find ways for you to spend more and more time with them.
They came to town on Saturday afternoon and we were on a mission for fans, then dinner and the park, which was such fun. Sunday you were so off of your schedule it wasn't even funny. Monday we finally had more of a plan...grocery store in the am, park with grandpa b/f lunch then duchess put you down for a great nap. We then went for a great bike ride and then to the pool.
Every time you talked to dad on the computer you started to act up, which you also did when we had dinner with Bubbie. It has been so hard to see you acting like this: spilling your water, biting, hitting and disobeying. You dropped your plate full of food onto the floor at dinner and it broke all over the place, i have never seen you act in such a way...i hope I can find the best way to help you manouver through these life changes. How I can be your stable, your constant and give you the tools to find your way to self-soothe or get the support so that you don't get too overwhelmed. You are such a lovely child and gift that I hope to guide in the best way possible. I know that there have been so many changes and I am just trying to do my best to figure out how to support you so that you can succeed.
You are the best dirty dish cleaner-upper, which is just too cute. You love swimming in the pool, playing in the sand, kissing your pugs and having all of the attention. I am so lucky to be your mom.
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